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What to Do When You Feel Stuck

Writer: Allison McCue-NapoliAllison McCue-Napoli

We all experience moments in life where we feel stuck—whether in our careers, relationships, creative projects, or personal growth. That frustrating sensation of stagnation can be overwhelming, making it seem like there’s no way forward. But the good news is that feeling stuck is temporary, and there are steps you can take to regain momentum. Here are some strategies to help you break free from the rut and move forward.

1. Acknowledge the Feeling

The first step to overcoming stagnation is recognizing and accepting it. Instead of ignoring or suppressing your feelings, please take a moment to acknowledge them. Understanding that feeling stuck is a normal part of life allows you to approach the situation with greater clarity and self-compassion.

2. Identify the Root Cause

Ask yourself: Why do I feel stuck? Is it fear, lack of direction, burnout, or something else? Sometimes, we hesitate to move forward because of self-doubt or external pressures. By identifying the underlying cause, you can address the specific issue rather than just the symptom.

3. Change Your Perspective

Often, feeling stuck is a sign that you’re looking at a problem from a limited viewpoint. Try shifting your perspective by seeking advice, reading new material, or stepping outside your comfort zone. Talking to a mentor, friend, or therapist can provide valuable insights and help you see new possibilities.

4. Take Small Actions

One of the biggest reasons people stay stuck is waiting for the “perfect” moment. Instead of waiting, take small, manageable steps. Progress, no matter how small, can build confidence and create momentum. Even making a simple to-do list or setting one achievable goal can help.

5. Engage in Something New

Sometimes, shaking things up is the best way to get unstuck. Try learning a new skill, traveling, reading a book outside your usual interests, or engaging in a different hobby. New experiences can spark creativity and open doors to new opportunities.

6. Take a Break

Feeling stuck is often a sign of burnout. If you’ve been pushing yourself too hard, permit yourself to rest. Whether it’s a short walk, a weekend getaway, or simply some quiet time, stepping away from the situation can provide a fresh perspective.

7. Reconnect with Your “Why”

Remind yourself of your goals and passions. What initially excited you about this path? Reconnecting with your purpose can reignite your motivation and help you see the bigger picture.

8. Embrace Discomfort and Growth

Being stuck can sometimes signal that you’re on the verge of growth. Instead of fearing discomfort, embrace it as a part of the process. Growth often happens outside of our comfort zones, and this period of stagnation might be preparing you for something better.

9. Seek Support

You don’t have to figure everything out on your own. Contact mentors, coaches, or supportive friends who can offer guidance and encouragement. Talking through your feelings with someone can often provide the clarity needed to move forward.

10. Trust the Process

Finally, remember that life moves in cycles. Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’ll be here forever. Trust that, with time and effort, you’ll find your way forward. Be patient with yourself and celebrate even the smallest progress.


Feeling stuck is a natural part of life but doesn’t have to be permanent. By taking intentional steps, shifting your mindset, and giving yourself grace, you can navigate through these moments and become stronger.

 
 
 

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